Let it be

One little incident can trigger off such a long and complicated chain of thoughts in one's brain. One comment and why it happened, how it happened, who all were invoved and why, who wasn't involved and why not, what if it was said at a different time or perhaps at a different place, all these thoughts are cooked up and garnished again and again. I don't know if its worth putting in so much thought and brain work after the incident has happened?? One part of me wants to believe its good learning experience for a next time, but the other being more brash believes its extremely momentory and exciting to be prompt and truthful.
But the truth of the matter is, let things happen and lead you, alter them only where you really have to. Everything happens for a reason anywyas, enjoy the abruptness of situations, enjoy the surprises thrown. Even if someday you are faced with a bad experience, which you feel was because you didn,t think too much, face it, that too will teach you courage and make you appreciate the good days in life. It's important to take the risks, important to enjoy the moments, feel ecstatic, feel helpless, cry, laugh, to live an undecided life. You would also realise, these are the incidents that you cherish and remember the most too, not the ones you plan and decide for.
So let it be, don t overthink... just enjoy the little surprises and experiences, and make sure you do that daily.